Octane

“Do not quench the Holy Spirit” -1 Thess. 5:19

In our amazing relationship with the Lord, some days are awesome and others days seem difficult. If we’re in a relationship with Jesus, we have true life. But if we’re walking well with Jesus, we have abundant life (John 10:10). There is a difference.

When we fill up our cars with gasoline, we typically pull up to the pump, get out, slide our credit card, then choose the lowest number possible (for the lowest price) and fill her up! Have you ever wondered what that number is? It’s the Octane number for the particular gas you’re choosing. Any ‘ole gas will do, but the higher number, the higher the octane level in the gasoline.
What is Octane? Octane is a hydrocarbon and an alkane with the chemical formula CH3(CH2)6CH3. Translated: the higher the number, the better the gasoline.
I pulled into a huge truck stop in Springfield recently and did a double take at the gasoline pump. It had the usual octane choices of 87 and 89, but it also had a choice for 110! And it cost $6.49 a gallon. It said next to the pump “for racing only.” I found out the station isn’t far from a racetrack. This special gas is reserved for racing cars.
But I thought, “What if I put the racing gas in my SUV? Would it drive at amazing speeds?” Of course, it wouldn’t. I have the wrong kind of engine. Having the right gas is only part of the package. It takes a racing engine too, built to take high-octane gas and convert it to speed.
As Christians with a new life in Christ, we have all the necessary equipment to drive really well. We are equipped with the Holy Spirit inside of us who supplies us with the highest octane possible.
Instead, it seems, we choose to drive like our tank is full of cheap gas. Though we‘re empowered with the Holy Spirit with an octane number of ten zillion, we’re limited by our capacity to yield ourselves to His power through us. Through Christ, we have all the potential to be a powerful NASCAR vehicle, but we’re left to decide…do I yield to myself and the Briggs and Stratton lawnmower engine that came standard when I was born, or do I submit to Jesus and the jet engine that is available to me as a child of God?
Here’s the deal: having Jesus as my powerful engine doesn’t mean I speed. The irony is, it means I slow down and rest. It means that in Christ, I submit to His strength.
It means I enjoy the most coveted and powerful thing of all: contentment and peace. The price has been paid. The tank is full.
Now enjoy the drive.

What I am learning at Doulos

In my year thus far at Doulos, God has taught me a lot about relationships and community. One of the reasons I came to Doulos was to work on the way that I relate to other people. This year, I have discovered a lot about my attachment style, and about unhealthy coping mechanisms that I have that keep me from healthy relationships. Through Doulos, God is challenging the ways that I relate with Him and my peers.
God has also taught me a lot about the unhealthy ways in which I view Him and myself. Through my experiences here, God has challenged my core beliefs about Him, myself, others, and the world. While difficult (and still incomplete), the struggles I have experienced here have prepared me to get rid of unhealthy, sinful attitudes and behaviors.

Rotating tires

“I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly” -John 10:10

Okay, here’s your car mechanic tip for the day: have your tires rotated regularly. Mechanics know that the front tires wear at a faster pace than the rear tires since they actually move when the vehicle is turning and encounter greater stress being in the front. So, to get maximum life out of a set of 4 tires, tires should be rotated every 6,000 miles.

Last week I took both of our vehicles in to have the tires rotated (no, not at the same time). As I waited for the second vehicle to be finished, a thought occurred to me. In this age of super technology and major technological advancement, tire rotating has not changed. I guess we’re still rotating tires exactly like we did when tires were invented.

So it goes with so many maintenance issues. Cleaning a filter on an air conditioner, flossing teeth, sharpening a lawn mower blade and many more examples, all involve simple maintenance. There is nothing fancy or clever or electronic about it. Most maintenance items are like that- boring but necessary.

Maintaining important relationships is a lot like rotating tires. Any healthy relationship is going to have conflict. The key to getting through that conflict is doing the day-to-day loving maintenance to keep the relationship focused and fresh.

Today, Al and Tipper Gore announced that they’re divorcing after 40 years of marriage. 40 years. Of course, that decision wasn’t made overnight. They said, “Our relationship grew apart.” Of course it did. Without maintenance, mower blades go dull, tires wear out, teeth fall out and relationships drift apart.

Of course, the most important relationship we will ever have is with our loving God and Maker. Because of God’s plan to send His Son to the cross, through faith, we can all be friends with God. But the relationship requires maintenance. When we accept Jesus as our Savior, that relationship is sealed forever (Eph. 1:13), but the quality of that relationship depends on how well we maintain the relationship. Too many friends of God live without doing the necessary things that keep the relationship focused and fresh.

When we mess up, we confess that to our loving, patient and forgiving God and move on. We spend daily time in God’s Word. We intentionally go to God in prayer all day long. We do the things necessary to keep our relationship up to date and valid, not out of obligation, but because we’re at our best when we’re in touch with our loving Father.

So, don’t forget to keep the maintenance schedule in your walk with Jesus. If you do, you’ll experience the true abundant life.

Memorial day

“It was for freedom that Christ set us free” –Gal. 5:1

Today is a special day. It’s traditionally called Memorial day, but was once called Decoration day to honor the Union soldiers who had died in the Civil War. It’s a day to remember all the men and women who sacrificed in all wars to provide the freedom we all enjoy in the United States. Many of those soldiers gave the ultimate sacrifice, their very lives, so that we might be able to live in a free society. The older generations seem to understand the meaning of the day more than anyone. Makes sense, since they lived through more of the carnage than most. It is so important that we parents instill that appreciation in our kids. It’s good that a majority of younger parents haven’t had to fight in a world war, but the respect and appreciation still needs to be passed on.

I remember when Elizabeth and Eric were in elementary school, I read in the paper that the Branson V.F.W. post (veterans of foreign wars) was having a ceremony at the memorial at the local cemetery. So I loaded up the kids and a few of their friends and we went to the ceremony. The kids didn’t really understand what was going on so I explained to them that it was a time to appreciate those that had fought in wars to keep bad people from bothering our country. They thought the gun salute was really cool (I did too).

Take the time to tell your kids about the meaning of Memorial day- whether kids or teenagers, help them understand the true meaning of honoring heroes.

I grew up in a military family. My dad was a Lieutenant Colonel in the Air Force. He was a physician and served in the military for 22 years. Up until 4th grade, our family moved every 2-4 years. My 3 older brothers lived all over the States and I was actually born in Wiesbaden, Germany where my dad was stationed at one of the largest bases in Europe. We grew up with a deep respect for the military. Living on the bases, we saw the day-to-day simple sacrifices that our father made while serving as a physician in uniform. Certainly, those that fought in major wars and gave their lives are deserving of our deep respect. But also those men and women who served in the military that did less glamorous things to preserve the freedom need to be respected also.

Yes, today is a special day called Memorial Day. Have a blast on the lake and barbequing, but be sure and spend it with your family and be sure and discuss the true meaning of the day. Tell your kids a story about your parents or grandparents that served in the military (or about your service). Maybe visit a military cemetery in your town to honor those that served and gave of themselves for us.

Also, let’s not forget to honor the One who gave His very life so that we might live, Jesus Christ. Any true Memorial Day needs to pay homage to God’s wonderful plan to set us free for eternity.

Teach that to your kids too.

Tolerance

“Speak the truth in love”- Eph. 4:15

I think tolerance is a wonderful thing. We learn from Jesus that accepting those different from ourselves is absolutely at the heart of God’s grace and love. But sometimes, in our quest to be tolerant, we can ourselves become “intolerant” of those men and women that correctly preach of God’s intolerance for sin. I know, kind of confusing. Not really. It simply means that if no one speaks against anything, then everything is okay. One great man who chooses to speak up is Billy Graham.

Billy Graham’s Prayer For Our Nation:

“Heavenly Father, we come before you today to ask your forgiveness and to seek your direction and guidance. We know Your Word says, ‘Woe to those who call evil good,’ but that is exactly what we have done. We have lost our spiritual equilibrium and reversed our values. We have exploited the poor and called it the lottery. We have rewarded laziness and called it welfare. We have killed our unborn and called it choice. We have shot abortionists and called it justifiable. We have neglected to discipline our children and called it building self-esteem. We have abused power and called it politics. We have coveted our neighbor’s possessions and called it ambition. We have polluted the air with profanity and pornography and called it freedom of expression. We have ridiculed the time-honored values of our forefathers and called it enlightenment. Search us, Oh God, and know our hearts today; cleanse us from every sin and set us free. Amen!”

Commentator Paul Harvey aired this prayer on his radio program, ‘The Rest of the Story”’ and received a larger response to this program than any other he has ever aired.

The phrase “silent majority” has been used over the years to describe the majority of Americans that do and say nothing about national affairs. The worst thing we can do as Jesus-followers is nothing. I’m not suggesting we are all called to move to Washington D.C. and lobby over the issues, but I am suggesting that we all can do something. In the Doulos discipleship program, we are trying to teach the balance between loving everyone and standing up for truth and values. It’s a tough balance.

Billy Graham was once asked whether America should be held accountable for the abortion issue. He simply shared the story about the allied troops forcing the citizens in the village surrounding Auschwitz to come and witness the corpses and bury the bodies. I think Graham’s point was that, though those citizens hadn’t been involved in the genocide, they were passively responsible because they’d done nothing to prevent the slaughter.

So, what are we doing? I’m afraid most of us Christians are doing nothing. Let’s accept the challenge today to pray for our nation. Earnest, fervent prayer is doing something. Let’s share with our children and friends and neighbors about the truth and freedom that comes through a relationship with Jesus Christ. That is doing something. Let’s stand up and speak out for the principles of truth and life. That is doing something. And, if God so leads, let’s go and actively lobby for these issues.

Most of all, let’s love. It is, after all, is the “greatest of these.”

Commoners

“The Lord said, ‘Whom shall I send?’ I said, ‘Here am I. Send me!’” -Is. 6:8

What are the requirements for being used by God? What talents do we need to have? What gifting is necessary to be chosen instruments of Christ? Lee Henderson made a composite list of significant people used by God in the Bible.

Joseph
In the Bible Joseph becomes the Pharaoh’s right hand man. Joseph can interpret dreams and he saves Egypt from a famine. Before Joseph was used by God in Egypt, he spent time as a slave and also spent time in prison.

Moses
If you were a shepherd and your daily work consisted of leading sheep around, you’d probably be shocked if God not only talked to directly to you and revealed himself to you but also told you that you were going to lead his people to the promised land.

Gideon
God used Gideon to deliver Israel from Midian but before that Gideon was nothing more than a farmer.

Jephthah
Jephthah is used by God to deliver Israel from the Ammonites. Before that Jephthah was only known as being the son of a prostitute.

David
Like Moses, David was also a shepherd but David was just a boy when he defeated Goliath and he would eventually become king of Israel.

Esther
Like Joseph, Esther was a slave before God used her to save her people from being massacred.

Mary
Who did God choose to be the mother of Jesus? A famous actress? A celebrity? A great athlete? A famous politician? No, the mother of Jesus was a peasant girl.

Matthew
Matthew was one of the 12 disciples and wrote one of the Gospels that told about the life of Jesus. But before Jesus asked Matthew to join him he was just a tax collector.

Luke
Luke traveled with Paul giving him a companion to journey with and Luke would also write one of the four Gospels. But Luke was nothing more than a physician.

Peter
Many of the disciples were just common fisherman and would go on to do God’s work. Peter is the best example as he would be an apostle, a leader of the early church and he would write two letters in the New Testament.

I’m not sure how long your resume is these days. But all God requires of us is to be willing and available. As Leroy Eims used to say, “Don’t pray ‘God use me,’ pray instead, ‘God make me useable.’” The common link of humility in the above list reflects His desire to use those with contrite hearts. Through prayer, simply ask God to use you, and He will. What an honor to be a commoner used by the Lord.

Sailing

“In view of this, I also do my best to maintain always a blameless conscience both before God and before men” – Acts 24:16

I love to sail. Well, I used to love to sail. It’s been a while since I’ve hit the water and raised the canvas. But I remember the sound of the silence on the water as the vessel clicks along. I remember the simplicity of the wind and the sail. And I remember the beauty of the challenge of the tacking- the art of trimming the sail to just the right point to max the winds without tipping the boat. I’ve never had a boat of my own, but my kids, Elizabeth and Eric, took care of that last year.

For Fathers’ day, they gave me a 20 foot sailboat! And it’s awesome. Eric had a friend that wanted to get rid of it so they bought it for a steal and gave it to me. So, have I been sailing every weekend ever since? Nope. There are a few…well, challenges that will have to be overcome before the boat sails.

First, the boat has a hole in the bow. It got hit by a fallen tree and has a foot wide hole in the fiberglass that needs to be patched. Secondly, the boat is missing a main sail and boom. They were never found when we picked up the boat.

So, the sailing waits until the repairs are made this summer. Of course, I don’t have to wait. I could tow the boat to the lake, ease it into the water and set sail. But the boat would eventually sink and it wouldn’t move without a sail. That would be ridiculous.

But isn’t that what we do in our walks with the Lord? We take off “sailing” through the day unprepared and poorly equipped and then act shocked and angry when we’re sinking in the middle of the lake. We cry “God, why would you allow us to sink? We thought you loved us!” We cry, “rescue us” to the Lord instead of recognizing our lack of obedience to letting him prepare us to sail in the first place. Too often, we create the very crisis we secretly blame on God.

Sailboats are awesome when they are correctly equipped to do the thing for which they were created. Just like any moving thing, the boat requires maintenance and upkeep to stay true to it’s purpose.

The Christian life is just like that. We require maintenance to stay true and honest in our walks with the Lord. Sure, we’re saved once and for all when we come to know Christ, but as long as we live in the flesh, we require the regular maintenance of forgiveness and fellowship. Just like that sailboat, we’re at our best when we’re patched and possessing the right equipment.

Paul said, in so many words, “keep your heart clean.” And then in Ephesians he reminded us to “put on the right equipment.” They are choices we make every day. Sure, we need to pray about those decisions, but mostly, we need to choose to do the repair work.

I can’t wait to back my repaired and equipped sailboat into Table Rock Lake and hit the water. But I have some work to do first. And you know what? I’m looking forward to the work too.

Therapeutic discipline

“For those whom the Lord loves He disciplines” – Heb. 12:6

Of course, Barney Fife called it “therapedic”, but if something is truly therapeutic, it is something that cures or treats disease. We all like to take medicines that taste good. I used to love having “fever” when I was a child because I loved to chew ‘aspergum.’ I loved the orange flavor. Yes, I even faked having fever a few times to get to chew it. But truth is, most medicines taste terrible. Most things that bring healing happen to hurt. But in the end, they cure.

Of course, God is the ultimate physician. He knows exactly what we need. Someone said, “discipline yourself so someone else won’t have to do it.” God knows when we need to be disciplined and exactly what medicine we need and how much and when to take it.

There is no area in need of healing more than pride.

Example: Uzziah. He was 16 when he became king of Israel and he was awesome. He reigned 52 years. The writer of 2 Chronicles recorded in 26:5 that, “He continued to seek God in the days of Zechariah, who had understanding through the vision of God; and as long as he sought the Lord, God prospered him. ” Wow! Uzziah prospered because he sought God. No therapy needed for him. He was seeking God and all was well.

A few verses later, in 26:16 the writer describes King Uzziah again, “but when he became strong, his heart was so proud that he acted corruptly, and he was unfaithful to the Lord his God, for he entered the temple of the LORD to burn incense on the altar of incense.” What? How did the humble, seeking Uzzaih become the proud, unfaithful Uzziah? He simply quit seeking the Lord. Chapter 26 in 2 Chronicles records that Uzziah contracted leprosy and died of the disease. Pride replaced humility and Uzziah went from prosperous to leprous.

We all have that tendency to drift away from the Lord. The old hymn records “prone to wander, Lord I feel it, prone to leave the God I love.” Sin keeps us wavering on this side of heaven and it often takes God’s discipline to keep us on track.

We have to believe that “God loves His people when He strikes them as much as when He strokes them.” As God orchestrates trial in our lives, he isn’t just trying to mess with us, He’s trying to make us better and teach us how to depend on Him alone.

God’s discipline is always therapeutic. It’s always for our best. And it’s always right. So, let the medicine go down.

Happy Mothers Day

“A godly mother’s… children rise up and bless her” –Proverbs 31:28

“Happy mothers day” to all you wonderful moms. I especially want to say happy mothers day to Mildred, my mom, to Jeanie, my children’s mom and to Elizabeth, my granddaughter’s mom. All you mothers do so much more than anyone even realizes and your faithfulness to your children is so pleasing to the Lord. Because you are willing to stand up for us as you stand before the Lord, we are better because of you. Here’s what I see in you as moms:

I see mothers of prayer. You are moms that seek direction from the Lord. You are Proverbs 31 women that go to the Lord asking for advice and counsel. You’ve learned that unless the Lord is doing the parenting through you, your parenting is incomplete. You have made petition for your kids countless times that He might be a loving Father to your kids. You’ve asked that the Lord would discipline your kids so they would grow, but that He would be kind and gentle with your babies. You simply are Godly women,

I see mothers that are patient. You recognize that growing takes time. When there are opportunities to push or expect, you have caught yourself and paused with a smile to say, “it will all work out- give it time.” When the pace of the household is running on fast forward, you have led the movement to slow things down. You have brought a beautiful pace to the family.

I see mothers that bring hope. It’s not an easy job growing up. Kids need the hope that a mother brings in the midst of difficulty. Throughout my life, my mom has always been there for me. Through defeat in sports, to struggling dating relationships through the teenage years, to my father passing away, she’s always been there as an encourager. I heard her encouraging words a few months ago when Elizabeth was about to have our granddaughter “turned” in the womb before the delivery. I think she sensed the concern in my voice because moms seem to have that kind of “emotion sensing” radar. She said (with her Georgia southern drawl), “Joey, it’ll all work out fine. It’ll all be fine. When I was a nurse, those procedures usually went well. She’ll be fine.” It was the encouragement I needed. You moms bring hope when we need it the most.

And lastly, I see moms that simply love. The 1st Corinthians list of love attributes fits you mothers well. You love well because you’ve allowed the Lord to love through you. You loved us in tough ways when we needed a spanking and you loved us in gentle ways when we just needed to cry on your shoulder. I’ll never forget those beautiful pictures of Eric or Elizabeth in Jeanie’s lap, head on her shoulder, and the tears flowing over a hurt or rejection. They needed their mom and mom was always there.

Moms, have a great mother’s day. May God bless you and honor you for your years of love. Thank you for helping us through our lives and for always being there for us.

Knowing Someone

“I want to know Christ…” –Phil. 3:10

Knowing someone, I mean, really knowing someone is awesome. Proverbs 18:24 states that, “a man of too many friends comes to ruin, but there is a friend that sticks closer than a brother.” True brother/sister friendships are rare. They are rare because they are risky. The hurdles jumped on the way to true friendship are high, but the prize at the end of the race is a life-long friendship.

In one of my favorite scenes in Avatar, Jake Sully turns to Neytiri and says, “I see you.” Neytiri responds back to him, “I see you too.” They were expressing the understanding and love that they had for each other as they knew each other. Then their tails joined together and they skipped off into the sunset. I never truly understood the tail thing.

I remember when I was in 5th grade I went to Camp Carter, a YMCA camp in Fort Worth. I was pretty shy but excited to go to camp with Joe Padget and my friends. I enjoyed the time but I remember feeling left out at the rifle range. The head counselor there made these special T-shirts for some of the guys in my cabin, but he didn’t make me one. I remember thinking, “I’m going to get to know this guy so he’ll make me a T-shirt.” I hung out at the rifle range as much as I could and talked to him at meals and stuff. I know, pretty pitiful just to get a Tshirt, but hey, they were cool. The last day of camp, guess what that counselor handed me? You guessed it, a T-shirt. I still have that shirt in my closet (just kidding). The point is, I wanted to know him (even if my motive was weak). When we want to know someone, we spend time with them.

In Philippians 3:10, Paul shares, “I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in His suffering, becoming like Him in His death.” Paul wanted to know Christ. Sure, he’d wanted to experience power and fellowship, but he wanted to know Jesus.

How are you doing in your relationship with Christ? Is he an “acquaintance” these days or a true friend? Do you “see” Christ? Of course, He always sees you. But am I relaxed in the grace of a friendship with Him? It’s easy to feel “left out at the rifle range,” but when I humble myself and reach towards Christ, he always reaches back.

And He promises to bless us with something even better than a T-shirt. He promises to bless us with His grace and love.

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